Tuesday, November 23, 2004
mM..SeEm tAt fRienDs aRound aRe sTress uP bOut pRoblEm hEre n thEre..lIng..jaNz..kJ..aH sEng itS juZ the pEriod where ppLe bEen blog doWn wiF pRobLem.. bUt thEn.. its juZ paRt of the gRowing pRocess..mAKe uS stronger aNd unDerstand sOme cOncept whIch we neVer reALisE it..mM..caNt dO mUch to hElp..juZ liSten..luCkily still got friEndz oUt there bEen haPpy..rU oBessed witH sLy nOw aFter the *huggie* , lyDia iN haPpineSs nOw wiF hEr nEw lifE aNd ...,pEng wiF hEr gUy..at leAst iT tuRn out gReat iN thEir liFe..iTs jUz tHe haPpy aNd sAd thiNgy tAt we haB to learn to oVercOme.. aNd leArn to aPpreciate, cHErish thiNgs,pEOple aRound Us..
tHings aRe bEyong oUr cOntrol..wE cAnt eXpect pEople to reTurn How mUch wE pUt in..sOme pArt will pUt in more..sOme will tAke it mOre..wE aLway thiNk tat its not going to be same..but then,when the thing is over..everything is back to the usual again..when people are angry,pissed, words juz cum out of their brain without much thoughts,it is not what they meant to be..one does not wan to purposely hurt another one..its juz u in their shoe,when u are angry,words tend to shoot out easily..too easy until u ddnt hab time to hab second thoughts.tHen maybe sometime is juz the ego in pple to put down their pride,and sae : sorry : to another one, when the someone are feeling sorry for what they sae.. hurts,disappointment.. isnt becoz of what u expect pple to be what u expect them? yr expectation too high, of course u will be more upset more often.. why dun ya lower down ya expectation 4 yr return? pple concept may not be the same as ya.. maybe its juz a simple request 4 them to be there 4 u when u are down, there wif u to celebrate yr joys, there 4 ya when u wan them to be.. they will.. if they reali can make it to be wif u when u wan them to be..
why pple will wan to get into something when knowing will be hurt? becoz they juz wan to try..and try to make it turn another way..if u think in a different brighter way, its will onli keep improving relationship between them. when thing occurs, u know how he/she will react.. u juz become more understand to their thoughts and concept.. we cant change pple concept,thoughts, but we can learn to adapt it..
previously, i aso been down.. where i wan my friends to be there, but they seem so busy..then..when people i not so close de cum asking about my things..i then realise then there are pple out there who wan to be there wif me when i am down..its juz tat i ddnt let them much..its juz tat they ddnt ask..but they care..pple in my school.. angeline..wendy hsu..wendy tan..people which i am not formerly close to.. are concern about my things..is juz tat i dun know.. and they ddnt ask..and it surprising of wat type of advice and words it cum out from them..juz a easy take care.. i be there 4 ya.. make a difference then..people who u ddnt raeli stand a strong place in yr heart,are juz as concern wif ya other clse pals..we dun sae..but we care..we dun ask..but we wan to be there wif u if u are down..we will be there when u feel u are alone n need a listening ear.
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